Wednesday, December 31, 2014

2014 Year-in-Review

I consider the years from 1999-2005 to be the formative years of my life, but 2014 ended up being one of major transition for me as well.

Cousins Nikki and Andrew French became parents for the first time early morning January 7, when Cousin Mae was born.  It was a few hours after the final BCS game, which was very appropriate considering the family's relationship with Ohio State and its football team.  On January 14, I returned to Kent State for my final semester, taking four classes on Tuesdays and Thursdays.  They were High Impact Speaking, Criticism of Public Discourse, Visual Design Media, and Communication Research Methods.  Criticism of Public Discourse was my favorite since it had me reviewing historical speeches.

I turned 30 on March 30 and had a great day.  This is a Facebook post that I wrote that day:

  • Thanks to all for the birthday wishes for my 30th! I went bowling with my best friend Scott Demko yesterday. This morning I tried Taco Bell breakfast today with Scott and his parents before going to church. Mom's cousin Karl was visiting from Tennessee and we had a good conversation after the service. I then went to Bob Evans where I had lunch with Stephanie Jerin, Megan Lengyel, and Lindsay Foley-Motil. I had birthday cake with my parents and I mixed in some March Madness this weekend when I had a chance. I'm wrapping up my spring break from Kent State, so the few extra days off helped me to get caught up with my appointments. I also got to go to work early at 6am for the first time on Saturday, which gave me an extended weekend. I still have a few more birthday activities to look forward to in the next few weeks.

In April, I was scrambling to find an internship for the summer semester since I was graduating in August.  Aunt Kathy saw an article in the Beacon Journal about College Now, an organization that assists college students, opening an office in Barberton.  I called the director, Jason Miller, and he suggested that I complete an internship where he did, the Barberton Community Foundation.  I went to their office for a meeting to meet the staff and they agreed to take me aboard.  I had a wonderful experience with the BCF, helping them with everything from writing and organizing their binders.  They have a great staff, in addition to their Board of Directors.

Grandpa Webster turned 90 on June 11, before he passed away from lung cancer on June 17.  I went to his calling hours on June 20 at Boyd-Born Funeral Home in Marion.  The week of his death (June 15 to June 21) was a pretty crazy week for me.  I got bronchitis for four days to start the week and I had tickets for the Indians-Tigers game on the evening of June 21.  During the pregame, my favorite childhood baseball player, Omar Vizquel, was introduced to the Indians HOF.  I only ended up working two days that week, but I had personal and bereavement pay, so I didn't lose any income.

On July 3, Grandma Maybin died in her sleep during the early morning at age 92.  I went to her calling hours on July 6 at Campfield-Hickman-Collier Funeral Home and on July 7, I was a pall bearer at her funeral and burial.  The funeral was at Barberton First Baptist Church (officiated by Mike Prebynski) and the burial was at Hillside Cemetery. 

Both of these grandparents were World War II Army veterans (Grandpa was a Military Police and Grandma was a nurse) and both maintained sharp minds until the end.  After Grandma Muffet and Grandma Webster died in 2004 and 2005, I would commonly say that my biological grandparents were deceased, since I was still able to call these two my grandparents.

In August, I took my second week of paid vacation from Acme.  On Friday, Dad and I finally made it to Lawrence County, Ohio to see Grandpa Hanshaw's grave.  It was Dad's first trip there since Grandpa's funeral in 1988 and my first trip there in general.  It was a challenge finding the grave in the unincorporated cemetery, but when we did, it was so fulfilling.  Grandpa was buried at Hecla Cemetery, but we also paid a visit to Zoar Cemetery, where his parents and other relatives were buried.  The following day, Scott and I went to see the National Road Museum in Muskingham County.  It was one of a handful of road trips that Scott and I made this year.  We also visited three Ohio casinos, Cleveland's Horseshoe, Northfield's Hard Rock Rocksino (my favorite), and Austintown's Hollywood Casino, in addition to the Indians game.

I also went to my first editorial meeting at the Barberton Herald in August, which led to three articles.  I've continued to write about one article per week.  I enjoy working with the staff and have met many interesting people while conducting interviews.  However, I work as a independent contractor and will continue to look for full-time work.  In September, I applied for a position as Manager Trainee for Acme, but did not receive the job.  I also attended a job fair at Kent State in October, which led to some additional interviews, although none successful.

Speaking of work and my current job at Acme, my co-worker Kathy Sharkey trained me to complete register and bulk candy-gum orders while she was on vacation.  I did this the weeks of March 30, June 15, July 6, and August 3.  On October 16, Acme opened a new location in Green and Kathy was transferred there a few weeks later, so I am now completing the orders on a weekly basis.

On September 20, I attended a wedding for BHS friend Stephanie Jerin and her new husband, Neil Laughlin.  The wedding was at Unity Chapel in Tallmadge and the reception was at the SYB Hall in Stow.  I was very nice and I got to see several BHS friends there.  During the break between the wedding and reception, I spent time at a local bar with Cousin Rachel's husband, Ron Musilli, and a few of their friends.

In December, I attended a few Christmas parties, one at Matt D's new house and the usual Tarsis Christmas party, where I have my usual run-ins.  Nikki hosted Easter and Thanksgiving for the first time in 2014, but Christmas stayed at Aunt Kathy's house.  Christmas was a struggle this year, due to four family members being ill.

Sunday, December 28, 2014

2014 Fantasy Football Review

The 2014 season marked the third season that my fantasy football team, Big Mike Boyz, participated in the Damn D Fest's league, started by Matt D. in 2008.  In late July, the annual draft lottery was held at David B's in Barberton to determine the draft order of the 12 participants, which is done in a snake format (draft order reverses from round to round).  I was not able to attend, so Matt sent me a text informing me of my position.  On August 24, the draft was held online for the first time in league history.  A life draft was held the first six seasons, but it was becoming too difficult to get everyone together.  Before the season started, everyone had to pay their $100 entry fee.  There were two new owners in the league this season, Dave and Matt J. (Matt's BHS friends).

The championship was held in Week 16 since many NFL teams would be resting their starters in Week 17.  The championship ended in a 77-77 tie with Lee, the league's 2013 champion.  Lee won the tiebreaker based on having the best regular season record.  Matt J. was the biggest overachiever of the season, winning his division with a 9-4 record despite a questionable draft.  My drafting skills definitely approved this season, leading me to the biggest turnaround from 2013.  I finished 3rd place with a 9-4 record after finishing 12th place (last) with a 2-11 record in 2013.  Big Mike's Boyz overcame a low draft grade in 2012 to make the postseason, but that would not be the case in 2013.

This is a recap of my roster:

QB: I drafted Lions' Matthew Stafford in the 5th round to be my starter and he had a solid season.  However, I drafted Seahawks' Russell Wilson in the 9th round and he ended up having a better season and was my starter for the 2nd half of the season.

RB: I drafted Bears' Matt Forte in the 1st round and he gave me the strong season I expected.  I drafted Zac Stacy in the 3rd round to be my 2nd RB, but he was in a slump midseason and I traded for Saints' Mark Ingram, who had a strong finish after fighting injuries to begin the season.

WR: I drafted Packers' Jordy Nelson in the 2nd round to be my top WR, but I was forced to trade him at midseason due to my RB struggles.  I drafted Texans' Andre Johnson in the 4th round, Saints' Marques Colston in the 6th round, and Colts' Reggie Wayne (WR-TE flex) in the 8th round to be my other starters.  These three finished the season as my starters, in addition to 49ers' Anquan Boldin, who I picked up on the waiver wire.  I received Vikings' Greg Jennings in the Nelson trade and he filled in at times when one of my starters had a bye week.

TE: I couldn't draft Tony Gonzalaz for the 3rd straight season since he retired before the season started, so I drafted Bears' Greg Olsen in the 7th round, who gave me a strong season.  I picked up Titans' Delanie Walker off the waiver wire early in the season and he filled in at both the TE and WR-TE flex position early when I had players on byes.

K: I drafted Broncos' Matt Prater in the 11th round, but he was suspended for PED use the day after the draft.  I replaced him with Prater's replacement Brandon McManus, but he struggled and I replaced him with Packers' Mason Crosby.  After I cut McManus, the Broncos went on to do the same.

D: I drafted the Rams' defense, but they struggled and I replaced them with the Bills during the season.

Monday, July 7, 2014

Memories of Grandma Mary and Grandpa John Maybin

Mary and John Maybin were the grandparents of Cousins Krissy and Nikki.  They shared their two granddaughters with Grandma Muffet (Grandpa died right after Krissy was born) and I was her only other grandchild.  Due to this and not having a grandson, Grandma and Grandpa Maybin took me on as their own grandchild.  She also considered my parents to be her family.  Grandma Maybin would host Thanksgiving at her home for Grandpa Maybin, their children and grandchildren.  Since hosting them would have left Grandma Muffet, Mom, Dad, and I without anyone to celebrate Thanksgiving with, she would invite the four of us over for lunch.

When I was little, Grandpa Maybin would invite the family with him to the Barberton VFW and that meant inviting my parents and I.  The children would get gifts and he would say he had three grandchildren, so I would get a gift too.  Grandpa Maybin died in 1992, at the age of 70, when I was eight years old.  I went to the calling hours and it was the first time I saw a person in a casket.  In 1995, Grandma Maybin and Susie moved and we continued to celebrate Thanksgiving in their new home.  In 2004, due to scheduling conflicts with Krissy and Nikki's in-laws, the family's Thanksgiving celebration was moved from Thursday to Friday.  During the last 15 years, Grandma Maybin gradually turned over the responsibilities of making the meal to Susie.  In 2012, they hosted Thanksgiving for the final time before turning it over to Aunt Kathy in 2013. 

In addition to Thanksgiving, we all got together every Christmas and exchanged gifts.  There were also some Easters when we got together too.  Any other time there was something going on with Aunt Kathy, Uncle Tom, Krissy or Nikki, we all got together.  Since Uncle Tom's family were like family to us, I invited Grandma Maybin and Susie to my BHS graduation party in 2003 and my University of Akron graduation lunch in 2008.

During a family get-together in January, Grandma Maybin wasn't able to join us since she was in the hospital.  It was an unusual feeling not having her there, but she was back again when Nikki and Andrew hosted Easter at their house for the first time.  It ended up being the last time I saw or talk to Grandma Maybin before she died on July 3, 2014 at the age of 92.

Saturday, June 21, 2014

Memories of Grandma Willa Mae and Grandpa Tom Webster

I have a lot of wonderful memories of my paternal grandma and step-grandpa, Willa Mae and Tom Webster.  I always looked forward to Grandma’s phone calls every weekend and the birthday cards I got every year.  Most of the time I spent with them growing up was when they came to visit at Rolling Acres Mall.  We would usually eat pizza for lunch in the food court and walk around the mall.  Dad, Grandpa, and I would usually stop in Kaybee’s toy store to look at the toy cars while Grandma would look at the women’s clothes.
 
The weekend before Christmas, Dad and I usually went to Marion to visit the family for the holidays.  Grandma always made a lot of good food and gave a lot of good gifts too.  The ’57 Model Chevy she bought me in 1998 was my all-time favorite.  A mini-license plate with the words “Keystone State” and the name “Mike,” reminded me of Grandpa.  I also saved a “tooth fairy” pillow Grandma made for me and a car sweater that I got for Christmas when I was five.  The times that Dad and I came to visit Marion in the summer were also great and I always enjoyed getting lunch at Bob Evans or Ryan’s.  Grandma’s family and car photos albums were also near to look at and really helped in constructing the Cox family tree. 
 
My most fond times with them was when I graduated from Barberton High School in 2003.  They came to my graduation on May 31 at E.J. Thomas Hall and to my graduation party at Barberton’s St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church on June 21.  I called Grandma the week of my graduation party to ask her to make potato candy since I figured it would make a good treat.  It turned out to be a big hit and it was all gone by the end of the party.
 
Grandma died on June 7, 2005, at the age of 81.  She had been battling an eight month illness dating back to a heart-attack she suffered in October 2004.  I only saw Grandpa five times after Grandma died, but I would call him several times a year during his years as a widower.  I called him for the last time on May 29 and we had a nice talk.  Grandpa turned 90 years old on June 11, went to the hospital the next day, and died on June 17, 2014.
 
Thanks for the memories and I will never forget you two, as you get to celebrate again together in Heaven.

Sunday, March 30, 2014

March 30, 1984

Some interesting things about the world, near and far, that was going on about the time I was born 30 years ago.

Celebrity birthdays include singer Celine Dion (1968), rapper M. C. Hammer (1962), actor Paul Reiser (1957), and singer Eric Clapton (1945).

News and Politics

US President: Ronald Reagan
Ohio Governor: Richard Celeste
Barberton Mayor: William Judge

Geraldine Ferraro (who passed away on March 26) became the 1st female to run for US Vice-President, as Walter Mondale's running-mate.  Mondale got crushed by the popular Reagan in the November election.

The Soviet Union and the communist bloc of Eastern Europe was still at it during the 1980s.  Germany was spilt into capatalist West Germany and communist East Germany.

The first Apple computer was introduced to the marketplace two months before my birth.

Local Happenings (Barberton and vacinity)

Highland and U.L. Light schools were in their final year as junior highs, as they would become middle schools in the fall.

Rolling Acres, which was right outside of Barberton, was the place to hang out.  It was anchored by Sears, JC Penney, O'Neil's, and Montgomery Ward.  O'Neil's flagship store operated out of downtown Akron.

Longtime downtown stores, F.W. Albrecht Grocery's Acme 9 and Marshall's Department Stores were concluding their finals years, as they were losing interest among modern consumers.  McDonalds was on Wooster Rd., next to the BHS parking lot on Hopocan Ave.  Old, but vacant, downtown building stood at the site of the current restaurant, as they were facing condemnation and razing.

Kroger supermarket, Zayre discount department store, and Revco pharmacy were tenants of the Austin Plaza.  Kroger would sell out all its NE Ohio stores that summer.

Click 54 (now Acme 14) faced Manchester Rd. at the time and were surrounded by outdoor Summit Theather and Coventry Drive-In.

Ohio Brass closed its doors after several decades in Barberton.  It now operates out of Atlanta, GA.

Sports

The Baltimore Colts packed up their equipment into a big Mayflower truck and moved out to Indianapolis early morning on March 29.  While there were rumors of the team's move, the way it was done, without any announcment, pissed off a lot of loyal fans.  The didn't get NFL football back until they got Art Modell to move the old Browns there as the Ravens in 1996.  Unlike Cleveland, they didn't get to keep their team's name, records, and heritage.

The 1984 baseball season started on April 7.  Detroit Tigers ace Jack Morris threw a no-hitter on opening day and the eventual World Series champs got off to a MLB all-time best 35-5 start.  Cincinnati Reds star Pete Rose got his 4000th career hit, becoming only the second player to do so (Ty Cobb, who's record would be broken in 1985 was the other).  The baseball world was introduced to Boston Red Sox "Rocket" Roger Clemens and "Dr. K" Dwight Gooden, a 19 year old sensation from FL, who debuted with the N.Y. Mets.

The Cleveland Browns released longtime QB Brian Sipe in February, who then signed with the New Jersey Generals of the USFL.  The United States Football League operated for three seasons in the spring, competing with the NFL for talent.

The L.A. Raiders would win Super Bowl XVII in January, becoming the last AFC team to win the game until the Denver Broncos would do so 14 years later.

Miami Dolphins second year QB Dan Marino would break all the NFL single season passing records in 1984.

BYU, behind QB Steve Young, wins the college football national championship.  They remain the only school from a non-power conference to win a championship at the D-IA level.

Patrick Ewing's Georgetown defeats Hakeem "The Dream" Olajawan's Houston to win the 1984 March Madness.  "The Dream" would be drafted 1st overall with the Houston Rockets, with UNC Michael Jordan drafted 3rd by the Chicago Bulls.  David Stern would become NBA commissioner that year.

Arts and Entertainment

Singer Marvin Gay was shot to death after an drug induced arguement with his father on April 1.

Happy Days and Three's Company would air for the final time on ABC after decling ratings.  The Cosby Show, Who's the Boss, Mr. Belvedere, Murder She Wrote, and Miami Vice debuted.

Since 80's rock is my favorite music genere, it's no surprise there were a lot of good songs out around the time of my birth.  Karma Chameleon by Culture Club was Billboard Music Top 100 song from February 4 to 24 and Jump by Van Halen from February 25 to March 30.  Footloose by Kenny Loggins took over from March 31 to April 20, followed by Against All Odds by Phil Collins (April 21 to May 11), Hello by Lionel Ritchie (May 12 to 25), Let's Hear it for the Boy by Deniece Williams (May 26 to June 8), Time After Time by Cyndi Lauper (June 9 to 22), The Reflex by Duran Duran (June 23 to July 6).  Other good number ones that came out before the end of 1984 was Ghostbusters by Ray Parker Jr., What's Love Got To Do With It by Tina Turner, Let's Go Crazy by Prince and the Revolution, I Just Called to Say I Love You by Stevie Wonder, Caribbean Queen by Billy Ocean, Wake Me Up Before You Go-Go by Wham!, Out of Touch by Hall and Oates, and Like A Virgin by Madonna.  I can't forget to mention that Michael Jackson was the King of Pop at the time.

Top movies were Beverly Hills Cop, Ghostbusters, Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom, Gremlins, the Karate Kid, Police Academy, Footloose, Romancing the Stone, Star Trek III: The Search for Spock, and Splash.

Tuesday, March 4, 2014

Favorite TV Sitcoms

This is a blog that I saved from MySpace that I decided to update and repost:

Mom and I were talking about our favorite TV sitcoms.  These were among my favorites, beginning with shows that went off the air no earlier than 1990.  Many of the shows were in blocs that aired on ABC Friday (TGIF), NBC Thursday, and CBS Monday.  I'm sure of the nights and most of the dates, but some of the dates are approximate.  Most would probably consider these nights to be the best on TV over the last 20 years.  If anyone has any feedback, let me know.

Top 10 (Not in any particular order)

Married with Children, FOX Sunday, 1987-97
3rd Rock from the Sun, NBC, 1995-2001
Two and a Half Men, CBS Monday and Thursday, 2003-
Boy Meets World, ABC Friday, 1993-2000
Fresh Prince of Bel-Air, NBC Monday, 1991-96
Becker, CBS Monday, 1998-2004
Cosby Show, NBC Thursday, 1984-92
Perfect Strangers, ABC Friday and Tuesday, 1986-93
Full House, ABC Friday and Tuesday, 1987-95
Modern Family, ABC Wednesday, 2009-

Next 10 Best (Not in any particular order)

Seinfeld, NBC Thursday, 1991-98
Cheers, NBC Thursday, 1982-93
Step-by-Step, ABC Friday, 1991-97
Family Matters, ABC Friday, 1989-97
Everybody Loves Raymond, CBS Monday, 1996-2005
King of Queens, CBS Monday, 1998-2007
According to Jim, ABC Tuesday, 2001-
Home Improvement, ABC Tuesday, 1991-98
Blossom, NBC Monday, 1990-95
George Lopez, ABC Tuesday, 2002-07

Animated Sitcoms

The Simpsons, FOX Sunday, 1989-
King of the Hill, FOX Sunday, 1997-2010